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Girls Trips Are a Non-Negotiable
Not because I need a break from my life—but because this is the life I'm building.
Jun 4
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So I Asked... Nat Sang What She's Not Waiting For Anymore
On confidence, reinvention, and refusing to wait for the right time
Jun 1
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May 2026
I Wanted Flowers, So I Bought Flowers
On the tiny decisions that make life feel richer
May 28
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Becoming a Redhead
On hair dye, identity, and choosing yourself on purpose
May 21
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41 and Giving Zero F's
How a fictional thong bikini accidentally changed my life
May 14
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Nat and Amanda - Part 2 : Growth on Substack, Creativity in Midlife and Music
A recording from Amanda | 40 & Giving Zero F’s and Nat Sang's live video
May 14
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Amanda | 40 & Giving Zero F’s
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I’ve Never Been That Kind of Mother
On loving my kids deeply without making them my entire life
May 7
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April 2026
You Can’t Just Tell Them to Be Confident
Raising daughters in a world that teaches them not to be
Apr 30
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I’m Grateful But I Still Want More
On loving your life and still expanding it
Apr 23
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I’m Done Shrinking
What happens when you stop trying to be less noticeable
Apr 16
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You’re Not Too Busy
You’re just choosing something else.
Apr 9
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Just Because Our Kids Are Friends Doesn’t Mean We Should Be
On choosing your own people—even in the world of mom friendships
Apr 2
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